Excellent post on the…

Excellent post on the Open Source Boob Project, and sex-positivity in general. She pretty much said what I would like to say. And the 'consent-from-bystanders' section was a particularly great articulation of something I felt, but had never seen put into words.

And re: what she says in the last few paragraphs -- I'm with her on that too. Yes, you can ask to touch my boobs. I won't be offended. But you should also be aware that most of the time, in most places, these days, I'll probably say no. Try not to take it too personally -- a decade ago, I probably would've said yes. But I'm older and tireder and more focused on other aspects of life now. Which I find a little sad, but there it is. :-/