I am reminded once again that our experiences are all different. Reading Jette's recent (very sexually explicit) entry
, I was just shocked. Because only once in all the men I've had sex with has anything even remotely like this happened, and that one time, I was just bewildered that any man could think this was a good thing to try. How could he believe that such boorish behavior could possibly leave me kindly or affectionately inclined towards him in the future? The one time, we had to stop everything right there and have a long talk about what was or was not okay in bed. And pretty much the only excuse I could make for him was that he was from both a different place, and a different time than me; several years older, and perhaps conditioned very differently by his background. We were both really confused by the other person's reactions.
No other guy I've been with has acted like this. Have I just been lucky because I mostly dated geeks? Or are most guys sane about this, and it's Jette who's been unlucky? Is it a Texas thing? Jette, maybe you should move to California or Chicago...
Sometimes the world bewilders me.