I just don't know how to weight all the different factors. It's very confusing!!!
One more interview on Monday, and both Katarina and Melissa are going to come by and do some actual babysitting next week, so we can see how they do with Kavi over a longer stretch (hopefully with one of Kavi's super-cranky periods, to see how they deal with it). She was driving me crazy this morning with her no-reason howling, and Kevin picked her up on his way out to campus and said, "Now, Kavi, I do like you, so you should be a little quieter, so mommy doesn't kill you before I get home." I think she was just tired; she went down early for her nap fifteen minutes after he left. But those were some miserable minutes for both of us. Hopefully, it'll help to see how these folk deal with demon-Kavi.