This morning, I snipped at Kevin a little about messing up the counter I’d *just* cleaned, and he snapped at me back, and I think we were both quite angry for a moment, angry out of all proportion to the actual offense.
We made up almost immediately, and I ended up picking up some apology flowers for him at the grocery store — I think this might be the first time (28 or so years in?) I’ve actually bought him flowers. We’re all good now, but it was weird. I think we are both very tired, and also, on some level, quite tense.
Be patient with your people, folks. Be patient with yourselves too.