I am planning to do the same talk-through with Kevin and possibly Jed later tonight, and am dragging Kat and Amanda over tomorrow morning @ 9 to do it again, and mostly, I don't expect them to actually figure any of it out for me, but I find it remarkably helpful to talk this stuff out, out loud. I can do the work by myself, walking in the woods or sitting in a caf, but some parts of it go much faster if I verbalize.
I don't know why, but at this point in my life, I am not inclined to fight what works for me. :-)