For data point, I think in the last month, I've spent about 3-4 hours crying. In the first month after Anand was born, maybe 3-4 hours / week? It has gotten better.
It's a stunningly beautiful day today, and after four hours of stained glass class in the morning, spicy cajun gumbo and grilled prawns for lunch at an outdoor cafe, chai and writing with Lori in the afternoon, I don't even mildly feel like crying today. Even though I'm now on kid-duty for the next five hours.