And look, I understand the history of why people tend to talk about men as harassers, but I think it's both annoying and counterproductive. Let's talk about the behavior we want to see change.
I wish there were an equivalent to that Jay Smooth video, the one about "How to Tell People They Sound Racist." I want one on "How to Tell People They Just Harassed Someone."
Because no, I don't think it's necessarily obvious to many of them. Maybe it should be, but it isn't. But we can fix that, just like I can teach my toddler that he doesn't get to just hit his sister when she won't share a toy with him.
This -- this right here. See what you did? This is not acceptable behavior.