Hey, munchkins. So, I'm finding myself a little overwhelmed, not sure where to start. See, a while back, Kevin and I started talking about merging finances, doing the various paperwork to do this joint life thing. And we got as far as a joint bank account, and then stalled, mostly for lack of knowledge for what else we ought to do. (Also inertia -- it's easy to just toddle along as we are, but that seems not so wise as a long-term plan.)
Is there a checklist somewhere, maybe for gay couples who can't yet get married? What are the legal things that we should do, if we don't want to actually get married? Help?
(I'm not sure how I got stuck with figuring this out, either. He's claiming it falls under 'household stuff', which is generally my purview. Hmph.)